OF DOGS, GIRLS AND THE SHILLING.

There is a story whispered in Kenya of a couple of college girls who were "lured" into acting a porn movie by a foreigner. Now, it is further whispered that a dog (an actual dog) was involved in this drama. To make it even juicier, there are louder whispers of the girls being offered a measly ksh.3000 to take part in the show.Furthermore, someone had the decency of posting the names and photos of the young women on the internet. Their parents must be so proud of their little girls.

Okay, away from the whispers, it is a sad occurence when brilliant and beautiful girls are lured into such an act for pay. And it is even sadder when we get to laugh and ridicule them without looking at the wider picture. I believe that the whole society is to blame here. And I am not talking about their and our parents/grandparents. Rather, I am talking about the younger, hippier and "swaggered" section of society that worships money and anything shiny. How many of you have looked down upon a fellow college-mate or workmate just because they have not "chanukad"? We talk about lanes people want to belong in acceptable lanes, right? The lane of glamor and beauty.

The media is awash with beautiful, well-adorned women who look so polished and pretty. Right from the hair (which is fake by the way) to the painted toe nails in stylish high heels. Plenty of college-going girls have expensive possessions, some you would not expect a college student to have. Like, how does a college student afford and maintain a Ksh.15,000 weave (again, it is a weave, not their real hair). Or how do you explain a college student who is lounging in Watamu this weekend and eating fish along the shores of Lake Victoria the next one?

We have let money and glitzy possessions define us and where in society we belong. And we have put the pressure on our young sisters to be glamorous as their ticket to be accepted in society. Many have done things to be among the "accepted" in society. These girls, whom we condemn and ridicule behind the safety of our computers had the misfortune of being caught, so we laugh.

We laugh at their exposed "closets", because our sins are locked away. A lock is just that, and maybe one day, the clothes and junk we pile in the closet will be too much for a flimsy lock and all may come tumbling out. Therefore, before we point fingers at these college girls who engaged in unacceptable acts, let us point a few fingers our way.

Our young sisters are getting lost in murky waters of seeking fame and a few coins. Are we not the ones who have celebrated and made famous women who pose nude and termed them "socialites"? Are we not the ones who have defined lanes according to how many photos that I can post on instagram traversing the country? Are we not the ones who have said that it is okay to look glamorous, and that we do not care how or where you get the money from? Are we not the ones who have folded our hands and encouraged our little sisters to try out the new "bendover" dancing style and clapped as she bent and twisted? Are we not...

So, while we stand there and adopt the holier-than-thou demeanor, just remember that that girl found committing a bestiality act with a dog may have been your sister or cousin or friend. Just what example are you setting to your sibling. Is their self worth less important than a few coins in the purse?